Trannies and Fruities Love At First Sight?

Have you ever seen a gay guy love a ? I can't understand that point at all...if you are a man and you are attracted to men, why do you date someone who acts and looks like a woman? And also, why do most gay guys act like so feminine and walk like this, and talk like this, where does that come from? I can understand a because maybe they feel as if they should of been the other , but a gay person I don't understand if they date someone who looks feminine and so. There is always one that is the man" butch, and the one that's a woman." I would like serious answers from gays, but also other answers welcome. Thanks!