I guess I should have been more specific about being plaid in Jamaica. I have been there several times and Im?

not putting down Jamaica. Yes, I did fall for someone really fast and I usually dont. Im not vain at all, but I attractive and my insides match. I dont normally take care of men. This guy was really nice to me and bought my children gifts when I met him. The following month his family invited me back. I only paid my airfare. The following month he needed money for his son, he got in trouble with the law, and he wanted to come visit me and was going to work for one of my friends while here so as to help me and have money, but it never happened. I gave him money each time because I was trying to have his back. Now I know it happened fast, but he still calls. I cant afford to call him anymore. I feel like Ive been played, but he and his family treated me well, but Im out of a lot of money and I dont know if his intentions were to use me or if he has a drug problem. I have met his entire family and they are not lke that, im just puzzled. Does anyone understand.?